It takes some women to make a man...
- starting from his mother
who carries him in her womb for 36 weeks...What she sees, hears, eats and senses all affect the infant inside ... And then after the birth she nurses him for many months to come ... So important is the mother's milk to the manhood that in India, there is this famous punchline whenever two males engaged in a duel "'gar maa kaa doodh piya hai to saamne aa"... The kids brain develops 99% during the first year of growth which they carry on for the rest of their life... and then she guides him the through the initial stages of life... till he becomes an adult ... to live by the principles most of which have roots in the good parenting ...
- and then his love/wife
She is the woman who he dreamt of after he became an adult ... she is one who gives him comfort/care everyday after he fights the world to get enough for their survival as a family ...she is the one who bonds with him emotionally/spiritually and understands him more than himself ... she is the one who gifts him with a greatest give a man can have ... the child...
- Others are father, uncles & aunts in the extended family
the man used to get care from them and learnt his moral lessons and responsibilities in life
- Still others are his teachers his role models
from which the man drew his inspiration in life to live pious, virtuous life.
So why will this man be extinct soon...
Rarely do I see good mothers these days... They make me feel as if the motherhood is like curse to them ... they almost skip every duty of a good mother ... they outsource their motherhood to baby-sitters/midwives and leaves for GOD knows what...the kids are left with emotionally ir-repairable voids for their lifetimes...
Rarely a man is able to find a love these days ... the lady will avoid you because she feels she will get "involved" with you... she would rather choose somebody whom she feels she will be emotionally safe in every way and guy will dance to her tunes without asking for anything... I have seen many good-looking girls adopting this strategy ... so all her needs are covered and she can dump the guy whenever she wants on the flimsiest of reason (the guys have term for them now..."girls faking love")... In case you are married to such girls and more new age brave girls and you do not dance to their tunes ... she can pull you to the court by filing false cases for domestic violence/dowry ... the law is so strict in India and that your whole life will be screwed up...
Even a singleton family is suffering now... so forget the extended family... no support from there also...
The teachers are long gone, they do not know what they teach/preach and there are no good role-models left...
So what... with no environment left for good growth ... the man will suffocate to death ... Left overs will pussies who cannot continue for long...
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